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谢谢你，我昨天看到了
江湖兵器靠边2011-01-13 06:46:54
我还在转给我看的北京同学那个群里把这个也转了一下，当时我还想到给你的回帖，心里美滋滋地呢，想满泡网就我一个人看出了Amy的幽默，没好意思过来自吹自擂，哈哈。
哥你就整些深奥的
江湖兵器靠边2011-01-11 11:23:51
N&N是后天先天那意思不？俺文化浅，你要给俺讲直白一点的道理。 另外我说你也是dead people也事出有因，我不认为你仔细看了我在这里贴的所有回帖，有一个已经把你这个N&N说得挺清楚的，是那个关于子女smart与否和父母permissive与否的帖子，说得真好啊！
让我有点失望哦
江湖兵器靠边2011-01-11 11:16:58
你也看不出我的一点小心思？这不是浪教哭着喊着要的主流吗？我的见识很短浅，真的觉得有这么多有识之士参加讨论是这个妈妈或者中国妈妈的巨大成功，搁以前你自己练吧有谁理你啊，现在很多跟贴的不以为然是反映了一种defensive attitude，楼上问个事儿说得好，“这篇文章如果在美国真的产生的很大反响，无他，一些老美自己觉得他们的教育出问题了。”。 我看过一些互动的论坛，NYT/CNN之类的，动不动就冲下三路招呼，跟隔壁差不多。这里一千多个贴子的质量之整齐让人侧目，我反正很受启发和教益，因为正好在纠结这些问题吧，所...
Good point
江湖兵器靠边2011-01-11 06:24:24
Dr. G wrote: Almost 2000, comments - mostly disagreeing with Chua - should hint that the author wasn't so great at convincing us of her superior parenting. Despite having two degrees from Harvard and being a Law professor at Yale, Chua, like so many other Asian parents, confuses objective measurable accomplishments with subjective happiness in life. Immigrant mothers makes this mistake because, back in China, the only way out of poverty and have a half decent life is to excel in academics, beat...
This is helpful too
江湖兵器靠边2011-01-11 06:05:30
Jennifer Madla wrote: As an Asian, I was brought up with these same strict values, though I am not Chinese. And as I teacher in a public school, I do see the impact that these values had. Nowadays, American parents, too often, delude their children to thinking they are better than they really are, causing inflated egos, but when disappointment sets in, these American children blame others for their faults rather than looking in the mirror. There is nothing wrong with praising your child, but wh...